Parents and Free Teenage Chat Rooms

Opinion: Here ye, hear ye, the following is only opinion. Every effort has been made to avoid pointing a finger at any particular company or organization in relation to ‘free teenage chat rooms.’ Read, think, research, and form your own opinions. They on occasion scare me silly.

Just about every teenage chat home page I have seen has had advertisements for adult singles chat and/or sex chat! It seems that people are seeking the almighty dollar despite the consequences to family structure or the teens themselves.

In the defense of the free teenage chat rooms, I must say that there is usually some description of suitable behavior for the website.

I have frequently seen such statements as:

• Never give out personal information about yourself such as real name, home address or phone number

• Keep your private information private

• Treat others with respect

• Please respect all others in the chat

• Please Do Not flood the screen with your text

• Please don’t fight with others

I hope there are more in depth limitations elsewhere on the site.

The following are two comments posted on one of the free teenage chat rooms I visited (I have eliminated the names):

• “I must say you have the best looking guys out there for online dating. I really like how your website makes it really easy to find single guys my age.”

• “… (this site) does work, and I would not have met my girlfriend if it wasn’t for XXXXX. So don’t give up hope. It really does work. I have the best girlfriend in the world now. She and I have been dating for two months.”

One search page result had a paid advertisement on the right hand side that indicated ‘teen chat rooms free.’ It listed a direct telephone number with area code. It was not an 800 number, and the participants had to be over 18.

On the home page of another teen chat site, I found six links to other chat rooms. Of the six chat room links listed on this particular page:
1) the first was a link to a teen chat. The remainder of the links are listed below (in order):

2) Singles chat where you could talk, flirt, and meet new friends of all ages

3) Meet sexy local singles, a chat where you could date local singles in adult chat

4) Adult Chat (FREE) where you could meet and chat with sexy local singles

5) Adults chat, a free meeting place for ages 20 and up, and ‘last but not least’ is

6) Chat sites for teens, singles, and adults of all ages (The picture by this last link was a young woman’s head shot. It was of her sucking on a strawberry while lying on her stomach on a bed!)

All I can say is wow! One out of six links listed was age appropriate.

There is no doubt that any chat site will encourage expression, interaction, and perhaps even creativity. Moreover, free teenage chat rooms are a very popular contact choice. Is there a balance between the expression of literary creativity and compulsion? You may want to look into computer and Internet access software that will help block some unwanted material.

Given that the Internet is global, teens engage in chat from all over the world. In addition to the free teenage chat rooms, there are all types of social groups for all kinds of people, including teenagers. Chat groups are tailored to specific groups of people, plus providing services to different lifestyles.

Some chat websites for teens have ages 13 to 19 targeted. I have seen others accept the ages of 12 to 19. Various free teenage chat rooms focus on the 16 to 19 year age group. A few of these teen chat sites boast about a worldwide group of teens aged 12 to 17 years of age. Except for the 16 to 19 age range, the other ranges seems somewhat suspect.

Free teenage chat rooms are generally monitored by moderators, but remember it is ultimately the responsibility of the chatter to chat safely. Chat Monitors in many free teenage chat rooms protect teens from unsuitable activities and some help to keep the chatter friendly. Rules enforced by moderators prohibit racial and abusive comments, harassment, foul language, and the giving out of personal information. Countless free teenage chat rooms report that the site is being moderated twenty-four hours a day. I hope so for the safety of the teen chatters.

Chat websites include the availability of user-created nicknames, and profiles detailing user interests. There are options to ignore specific users, buttons for common phrases; and what are called ‘User Interactives’ that allow such expression as “kiss,” “hug,” “slap” and “poke.” Beyond the free teenage chat rooms are message boards, horoscopes, free arcades, jokes, and search-able user profiles. There is usually a help center, a list of teen slanted links with opportunities to invite friends to the chat site. Some, if not all, allow the chatters to send private messages (private messages?) or play games online. Of course, teens may also share via MySpace, Facebook, Friendster and a host of other social sites, which is another ‘can of worms’ for the parents.

Opinion: Here ye, hear ye, the following is only opinion. Every effort has been made to avoid pointing a finger at any particular company or organization. Read, think, research, and form your own opinions. That’s it; that’s all I know about free teenage chat rooms.

Adult Dating is About Maturity and True Romance

The term “adult dating” refers to the dating habits, which essentially carry responsibility and maturity in the way of search for the romantic relationship. So, Adult Dating stands to being mature and responsible while carrying out the romantic relationship. It is not something like what a teenager or a person in early twenties does recklessly and irresponsibly while dating.

Real Adult Dating comprises of the elements of intelligence over immature gestures while dating a person. The immature singles think of a nightclub or a bar when it comes to find a quick potential date. However, the responsible adult dater chooses some other places in search of a potential date. The matured adult knows that the person who has more in common with him can be found by pursuing his favorite hobby or interest. So more precisely, adult dater is committed to find another person who shares the common interests and hobbies. Adult dating doesn’t merely look for the physical satisfaction or void romance.

Also, responsible adult dating embraces treating your date with respect even at a time when the things are not well. Remember, behaving rudely with your date at a time when things are not in place is not the sign of a mature person. So, be polite and behave respectfully as it would surely get you more pleasure and romantic moments.

Often, it is seen that teenagers and young daters get involved for physical reasons! But, a mature person realizes that true dating is all about mutual respect. A mature person looks for a companion, who has something in common with him than just physical attraction. So, the adult daters grow into being more mature and responsible and then the bars and nightclubs become an idle place for them.

So, if you are looking for adult dating then the internet is not the right place for you. Just wake up and visit some museum, concert or a workshop where your favorite events take place. While getting involved in your favorite hobbies and interests, look out for other exciting people who share the common interests and hobbies with you. And, gradually you will find a perfect adult date, which will help you develop your relationship satisfactorily and romantically. So, just go ahead and experience the mature dating habits as the life is very short to experience the real joy and learn the art of romance.

Learning Online Adult Dating Chat

These days, there are many dating sites which feature instant messaging (IM). Instant messaging (IM) is a type of real-time version of email. When you are online with IM, the typed conversation appears in a window on your computer screen. While you are typing your message, the other person can see what you’re typing. As soon as you hit ‘enter’, the other person can also reply immediately. So, IM can be a casual conversation between friends or business discussions between business associates. However, adult chats are exclusively sexual in nature.

Prior to IM, sites like AOL offered chat rooms where members could sign in and get involved in multi-way chatting. If two people wanted to chat exclusively with each other, they could open their own private chat rooms and chat between themselves only. However, groups discussing about romance, inviting others to private rooms would often be an invitation to cybersex. Though, IM has taken over those sites but some sites still have chat rooms.

Adult dating sites are now common for chatting about anything – clean or dirty. Online dating chat can have romantic conversation as well as helps in developing relationship. Initially people start chatting with casual conversation but proceed towards anything explicit later on. Often, the chats focus on the sexual intercourse and other sexual acts like fetish play and fantasies.

Lots of people participate on these sites either to enjoy the sexual talking or for convenience. When you log on to such sites, you will always find someone ready for imagined encounter. So, people turn up to these sites for cybersex for the reason that there is no risk of sexually transmitted diseases online. The other advantages of cybersex are that it is secret and gives pleasure of sexual arousing with variety of strangers. Besides, there is no commitment while getting involved in online chat because you don’t have to meet the person physically.

If you are doing the chat for the first time then wait and watch how others are doing it. Be polite and understand what it is all about going on there. Once, you become familiar with the events taking place there, get into it and introduce yourself and participate actively. IM is almost similar to dating and make sure that the person you are talking with is also interested in talking to you. You can start with ongoing topics and even can switch to cybersex later on as the site is meant for explicit communication.

While doing the online chat on the adult dating sites, remember not to disclose your personal information. Also don’t get too much involved or attached with anybody. There may be the persons who try to frighten or upset you. In such a situation, end your connection immediately to avoid any anxiety.